The Obstacle is the Way

Part 2: Action

Reflection/Discussion Questions

  • Thomas Edison is given as an example of persistence, going through 6000 filaments before the lightbulb worked. As well as Ulysses S. Grant’s victory in Vicksburg had only come as a result of dozens of failed attempts before finding the successful one. 
    • Q: Considering those examples, what value can we glean from Ryan Holiday’s quote “Genius often really is just persistence in disguise”?
  • Consider the following statements regarding failure:
      • Failure can become the source of breakthroughs” 
      • “Anticipated, temporary failure hurts LESS than catastrophic permanent failure” 
      • “Failure is the best school, but tuition ain’t free, be glad to pay the cost” 
      • “Only way to not benefit from failure is to not learn from it.” 
      • “Failure is the world (universe) giving you feedback, its revelation” 
      • “Failure shows us the way, by showing us what isn’t the way” 
    • Q: What is your relationship with failure like? When has failure turned out to work out for you in the long run? 
  • Consider Amelia Earhart’s example of taking the “offensive offer” initially that eventually led her to build momentum toward landing a permanent place in the history books.
    • Q: What might have happened had she waited for a better offer? What are other ways people fail to get moving by “holding out” for the best opportunity?

Challenge: How you do anything is how you do everything

  • Infuse intention into 3 everyday routine things. Example:
    • Instead of just making your bed; make your bed as a metaphor for putting your life into order
    • Instead of just brushing your teeth, brush your teeth while think about how you should always speak the truth
    • Instead of just driving to work, think about how you can use that same driving time to listen to a podcast or uplifting music